Your Couple Conflict Style Is Fire
Reactive, Heated, Passionate
As Fire, you are likely quite comfortable in conflict. You tend to get agitated and say things you don’t mean in the heat of the moment.
When conflict arises your nervous system goes into fight mode and you may focus on being right or blaming the other person.
You might even enjoy the fiery passion that can come from intense fights, which can lead you to create conflict just to have your need for intensity met. Conflict can make you feel alive.
You can be an emotional person with big feelings and the energy of your emotions is directed outward in a loud way. You likely tend toward Anger rather than sadness.
Your greatest gift is that you have the ability to express yourself and have very strong boundaries. You are a very passionate person. When your passion is channeled in a healthy way it can strengthen your intuition and creativity.
But being the Fire type also comes with its challenges. If unmanaged, the intensity of your emotions can lead you to (sometimes unintentionally) hurt the one you love – which can put a wedge between you and your partner rather than creating deeper connection.
Conflict has the capacity to deepen our connection when approached in the right way.
As a Fire type, you may miss out on the gifts of intimacy because you get caught up in your reactivity. There’s a deeper reason why get so reactive and have a hard time regulating your emotions. It’s important to have the right tools so you can approach it gently.
I’m going to share exactly how you can overcome your challenges in conflict by showing you a roadmap for creating the healthy and loving relationship that you desire – one where conflict is used as a way to cultivate deeper passion & connection.