Your Couple Conflict Style Is Earth
Grounded, Practical, Stubborn
As Earth, you tend to be very logical in your approach to conflict. You may stay focused on the facts and stay ‘level headed’. You may feel uncomfortable with intense emotions.
You prefer to get to the root of what is going on in an intellectual and calm manner.
There can be a tendency to get stubborn in your perspective and focus on proving your point rather than seeking to understand the other person’s perspective (especially if your partner’s style is different from yours).
Your greatest gift is that you’re able to maintain a sense of calm in conflict which allows you to get to the root of the issue much faster.
But being the Earth archetype also comes with its challenges. You may love being right or think logic is superior to emotion. If your partner is an emotional type – this can lead to them feeling like you don’t care about how they feel, which can put an invisible wedge between you.
Conflict has the capacity to deepen our connection when approached in the right way.
As an Earth type, you may miss out on the gifts of intimacy because you don’t always let yourself be vulnerable and feel. You may prefer the safety of being in your head.
There’s a deeper reason why you may not let yourself fully feel and it’s important to have the right tools so you can approach it gently.
I’m going to share exactly how you can overcome your challenges in conflict by showing you a roadmap for creating the healthy and loving relationship that you desire – one where conflict is used as a way to cultivate deeper passion & connection.